Hello! Blogging world. It’s Troy’s wife, Melanie. He’s mentioned me in a few blogs and I’ve always PLANNED to join in the fun, but alas never took the time to write down my thoughts. So here goes, my first blog… please be gentle 🙂
Troy and I just took one of our amazing trips. This time with the 2 younger boys for their vacation before they go back to school. Jackson has been playing baseball all summer making it difficult to go on a vacation. This year, I thought we could just keep it simple and go to Louisville, KY, about 4 hours from our home. I hope to make time to write a review of Louisville, but this blog is about getting back to a normal / sustainable routine. When Troy and I travel, we enjoy a little bit extra most places. We eat desert, have the coffee, try the new item on the menu and all that fun stuff. We buy the kids ice cream and let them eat fast food more than usual. And usually, I come home with the attitude that I need to get my life and decision under control. While it’s fun to relax and enjoy, those unhealthy decisions wake me up in the middle of the night, make me cranky, and sluggish all around. We try to keep active by hiking, climbing, and running, but I can’t keep up with the extreme schedule in either direction.
Also, I’ve been listening to Cait Flanders book a “A Year of Less” which is my second time listening. She makes great points and the book reviews what we all know which is if you want to lose weight, eat less, if you want to save money, spend less, and so on. Cait explains how she personally tackles spending less for a whole year. She holds herself accountable by writing a blog and sharing with the world her successes and her opportunities to improve. Ugh, and man do I HATE holding myself accountable publicly or honestly even formally. I won’t even write it in a journal so there’s always a way to wiggle out of a goal. With that being said, I reach my goals usually. Over the past 9 months, I’ve lost 30 pounds. I’ve started running consistently again planning for a 1/2 marathon in November. I’ve started consistently climbing (something that was never a goal, but satisfies weight training). i reach goals for the most part, but I don’t make big vision boards and document the progress. I guess until now.
I have 10 more pounds I want to lose. I want to do that while training for a 1/2 marathon and not being so reliant on Optifast to get there. I want to move into the phase of eating that is my new normal and that I can control myself. I would also like to reduce my spending. I previously listened to Cait’s book and really curbed my spending on clothing and small, impulse buys, but when I lost weight, I opened my budget to replace my closet and well, that needs to get back under control. I haven’t re-filled my closet completely, but I wanted to keep it minimal and it’s kinda not.
So, starting today, I am coming up with my rules of engagement for the rest of 2019 for spending. I am also coming up with my healthy plan for the month of August to be renewed in September. I have some travel happening in September that will take some special consideration.
Spending through 12/31/19:
- Can buy house hold items that need replaced or are non-existent now
- Can buy items to finish decorating the boys rooms
- At the beginning of each month, thoughtfully determine the 3 wardrobe items that make the most sense – get rid of what they replace if they replace items
- Determine a plan for Christmas
- Can buy items for the boys that they need, such as sports gear
Current items I want to buy:
- Black blazer for work – thinking I will wait for a labor day sale at WHBM
- Climbing shorts – because the ones I have are too big and I climb ~ 3 times a week
- Running shorts – because I have 2 pairs now and would like a 3rd for a whole weeks worth of running shorts with pockets
- A traditional jean skirt – because I think it’s cute
This list can be updated, because I’m sure I did not think about everything…. Also, I want to review my spending history to make sure my gut feeling is right that I’m spending most of my money on clothing.
Weight management for the month of August:
Goal weight = 140, current weight 155 (Louisville weekend was super fun, and wow! I just published my freaking weight, uh, that hurts 😉
- Drink alcohol only once a week (usually, Monday night climb and wine)
- Go to Conci regularly to check in and progress off the Optifast diet
- Plan a meal strategy at the beginning of every week – this week I will be finishing the Fresh ’n Lean meals for lunch and salads for dinner
- Track calories using My Fitness Pal
- Weigh myself daily
- Continue with the Garmin running plan, climbing for fun, and add to the fitness routine Ab workouts
I will check back in next week for an update on my progress.